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It Wasn’t Very Long Ago – Graduation Poem for a Daughter

Friday, May 18th, 2012

High school and college graduations are milestones in a young person’s life. They should be celebrated, and the work of your student should be appreciated.  These young people have worked very hard, under much stress, and they face a future that offers no guarantees.  Let’s hope they take better care of our world.  We need them.  Celebrate them! Appreciate them! Love them.

This poem was written several years ago for the beautiful daughter of some dear friends. I hope you enjoy it. 

It Wasn’t Very Long Ago

 

It wasn’t very long ago
you came into this world.
Your family has watched you grow
to a woman from a girl.

 

When you were born, the universe
brought forth a shining star.
Your parents are so proud to see
how beautiful you are.

 

Now you take a few small steps
in to your own domain.
Today the stars around you dim
in honor of your reign.

 

You’ve learned that education is
the key to your success,
And with talent and ambition
you always will impress.

 

Your smile, strength and confidence
reflect the work you’ve done.
Wisdom still reminds you that
you’ve only just begun.

 

While we praise your great achievements,
we now take time to pause:
We remember most your kindness
and we break into applause.

 

But more than your accomplishments,
more than medals won,
you are a loving daughter
whose smile blinds the sun!

 

 Copyright 2008-2012   Daniel Mark Extrom.  All rights reserved. No part of this poem may be copied or disseminated with express written permission.

Another Graduation Poem: Learning to Fly

Friday, May 11th, 2012

It’s graduation season again, a time of looking back, a time of looking forward, a time of reflection, a time of anticipation. It is a time of celebration. A milestone is reached, as new paths move into view.

“Learning to Fly” was originally written for my nephews when they graduated from high school. It is actually written as a congratulatory poem from the perspective of the parents, with some advice to the student. I hope you enjoy it!  It makes a great gift for the graduate, whether high school or college. You can insert your graduate’s photo in the opening, or a photo with the parents or siblings or significant other too!    The above version is in the Store, 20 inches by 16 inches. Follow the link:  http://wp.me/P1F6K3-6

Learning to Fly

A beautiful graduation gift!

Today we see a happy hawk

prepare to leave the nest.

Eager feet now take the walk:

and so begins the test.

 Excited, happy, tentative,

confident, afraid.

“Can I fly?  Can I live?”—

emotions firm but frayed.

 Parents’ thoughts race wildly

of tiny legs and wings,

recalling moments tenderly;

but time to cut the strings.

 “Fly, come fly, majestically—

your wings spread wide and strong!

Keep us in your memory

as you fly so high and long!

 “Remember what we’ve taught you:

move with strength and grace.

Let no one deter you

as you move among your space.

 “There are many others similar,

but none so quite unique.

Your place above the clouds secure,

be strong in what you seek.

“The winds may blow against you,

cold and sharp and strong.

But nothing can restrain you:

know that you belong.

“Adversity is always there—

without it you’ll grow weak.

Be wary of the crowded air—

it’s filled with those who do not seek.

 “Celebrate diversity—

without it, life’s mundane.

Seek individuality—

your name is your refrain.

 “Find comfort in the friends you make,

but do not let them mold you:

the goals you hold may be at stake—

let integrity enfold you.

 “Learn from those who love to learn,

and not from those who must.

Knowledge gained seeks return

and wisdom is a sacred trust.

 “Now fly and do so happily!

You have passed the test.

But know that you will always be

a child in our nest.

 “This is all we ask of you:

Be kind.  Be strong.  Be free.

And know that we will love you,

wherever you may be.”

 All poems copyright Daniel Mark Extrom 2009-2012. All rights reserved. No copying or other use of these poems without express permission of the author. 


 


 

 

It’s Graduation Season! Buy a Picture Poem for Your Graduate!

Friday, April 27th, 2012

A Gift Your Graduate will long remember!  With his or her photo in it! You can even put their name in it!

Or, you can email a photo to us and we can put the text in the photo. (Choose a photo that has room for text. We don’t like to write over their beautiful smiling faces!)

Here is a gift your graduate will treasure forever!  Put your graduate’s photograph in the matte, accompanied by the printed or etched matte to make a graduation gift to remember.  And there are some words of wisdom (if I do say so myself!) in the poem.

Here is one graduation poem that we gave to a young lady several years ago. She still treasures it!

Each Day You Write Your History

*

Sometimes it’s so hard to see
just how much we’ve grown.
We measure life in stages
and by people we have known.
*
And now you’ve reached a milestone,
and turned another page.
We applaud your great accomplishment
and watch you take your stage.
*
There are those who’ll try to change you.
Hold firm to who you are.
Be in charge of your own life:
make your home but travel far.
*
Leave time for some adventure,
and let your spirit soar.
But listen for your silent self
above the world’s roar.
*
Each day you write your history.
You know you have the skill
to solve your own life’s mystery:
Write it as you will.
*
Copyright Daniel Mark Extrom 2008-2012. All rights reserved. No part of this poem can be reprinted or copied without express written permission.

If there was no calendar, what day would it be?

Monday, January 2nd, 2012

Happy New Year!  Make it so.

We make such a big deal about a new year.  We convince ourselves that, somehow, this one will be different and better than all the others. And perhaps it will. Each of us, of course, has some power, some ability, and some opportunity, to make it a better year for ourselves. But increasingly, I think we, collectively, believe that we have less control over our own futures than ever before. Why? The blacks and whites (not racial terms here–just a descriptive term for issues) are melding into grays of varying intensities, and most of us feel trapped by those who seem to assert, with such certitude, positions that are so far to the right (or to the black) of us or so far to the left (or the white) of us that we are not sure we can even formulate a position of our own without risking major criticism from one side or the other, or even both. And so we often remain silent, while we suspect our world is imploding upon itself and upon us.  And we try to cheer ourselves up by focusing on little things: a new year; a holiday; a small raise; a stock market rise; a birthday; a new car; a new episode of CSI.

But still we are scared.  The institutions we once believed in are beyond our understanding, and seem beyond caring about any of us.  Greed seems rampant in far-off places, and while we like to think we can muster up some economic ambition in ourselves, it seems that there is something  or someone out there, unknown to us, that will somehow end up benefitting much more from our efforts to rally ourselves than we will.

And this frightens us in a way perhaps not seen before. Our efforts, we suspect, will be for naught.  Government does not work, we think, and we suspect that government is no longer owned by “the people” but by moneyed interests that we don’t know and cannot touch, but we sense that they are in our purses and wallets more often and more deeply than ever.  Even more, we suspect that they are in the purses and wallets of those we trusted enough to elect to office, such that what we want and hope for and expect from government is irrelevant in the face of the demands of the moneyed interests.

And yet, every couple of years, we are told how much our votes matter, and how important we are to the process, and how much our opinions matter. But we suspect we are being lied to, and we don’t know who the truth-tellers are anymore, or if there is even a truth-teller out there. More to the point, we worry that we have no one to speak for us, and we worry that no one would listen even if we found such a person to speak for us.  If we have no one to speak for us, do we have a voice?  Most people, I think, are relatively and quietly moderate, or they don’t care, until they figure out that their jobs are leaving town and they won’t be able to buy food because the grocery store is closing because there is no one capable of buying food even if they, individually,  had a little money to buy food. They can’t send their kids to school because the schools have closed because no one owns a home because their jobs left town and they couldn’t pay the mortgage, and the property taxes are unpaid and so there is no money to pay teachers and for school buildings and more maintenance.  And stop signs will not get replaced when they fall down, and fire and police protection will become sparse and perhaps ineffective.  And who will monitor those who would pollute our lakes and rivers and air? And who will inspect the restaurants to make sure food is safe? And who will make sure the airplanes are safe? And so on.

This country was truly founded on the backs of the middle class, and the upper classes knew this, and understood it, and accepted it.  Read Ben Franklin.  Read about George Washington. Read Abraham Lincoln. Read. Read.  Stop watching the TV (except CSpan’s Book Channel). Read. See how important the middle class was and is.  But when the middle class is squeezed into oblivion, it may be too late. And the end result will be that the upper classes will start to eat each other.  Why? Because when the middle class is gone, they will need to create another one, which will be made up of former members of the upper classes.  Why? Because they certainly can’t trust each other. They know how they are, and how much they need, and they know that  most of what they need is not very much except that they need all that they have and want no one taking any of it away for anyone else’s benefit.  But they know they need a middle class, even if they have to invent one from former wealthy people. Because without a middle class, there is no source of income to the wealthiest among us.

But no society can exist without fair taxation, just as a professional association  or volunteer organization cannot exist without dues.  If such a professional association charged dues in the same amount to every member, the poorer members will simply drop out once they cannot afford it, and eventually, taken to an extreme, only the wealthiest members will remain. And they will have to pay more to sustain the organization, if they wish to sustain it.  But in a nation, those who cannot afford to pay the dues cannot leave. What will happen when the middle classes can no longer afford to pay the taxes?  When that point comes, they will not likely not be able to buy the products and services offered by those who produce the products and services, thus affecting the economic status of those producers.  What will happen then?

So taxation is not the real issue. The real issue is this:  what kind of country do we want to have?  Do we want to weaken our country so much that only the wealthiest will survive?  Are you an employee?  Are you working harder and more hours than ever before?  Is more demanded of you than ever before? Are you told that if you cannot cut it, you can easily be replaced?  Do you feel like a slave to your job?  Are you sharing in the bonuses?  Who is?  And are those bonuses paid to other people far in excess of your own salary?  At the end of every review, do you feel simply lucky to still be alive? To still have a job? To still have health insurance?

Where does it end? It is 2012.  It is an election year. What will your life be like in 2013? 2014?  2020? Do you want to be controlled by the extremists?  By the wealthiest among us?  What kind of country do you want?  Where is the America you grew up with and loved?  Who owns it now?  When did they buy it?  Who did they buy it from?  And what did they pay for it?  Did you get any of that money?  Or did you pay for your own losses?  Do you suspect that you did?

Where is my America? Where is your America? Is it still the land of the free and the home of the brave? Or is it now the land of the greedy and the rest of us?

2012: Be an American. Be a voter.  Know the candidates.  Know yourself.  Love your country.  Change the ownership.  Make it your own. Start local.

Enough said.  Happy New Year!  Make it so.

Off (or Back) to College – ‘Tis the Season

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011

Back to School!

Well, it’s back to school time.  All over the country, our students are preparing for another school year.  It’s an exciting, scary, exhilarating and expensive time.  Yet, these young people are the finest and best hope for a nation so in need of hope.  We need to be there for them, and our nation needs to be there for them.  ‘Nuff said.  And thank you to the professors, adminstrators, office and maintenance staffs at all of our colleges and universities for helping to make the educational experiences and campuses the best they can be for these young people. I am re-running a poem that I first put up last fall, dedicated to our students.

For You, Our Child

You are the child of our love
and the vision in our dreams.
You are curious, strong and beautiful,
and filled with such potential.
We long to see you when we are old;
to know the places you have seen;
to know the wisdom you have known;
to see the changes life has made in you,
and the changes you have made
in a world in need
of so much change.
We have no words of wisdom,
for those must come from you.
But have a dream and have a mission,
and speak to yourself, often and calm,
and trust in the words you say to yourself
in quiet reflection, and let them inspire
your passion, your strength,
your wisdom, your fire.
We love you now and always will,
and we pray there are moments,
when you are still,
that we come to you in your mind
and comfort you and slow your hurried ways.
And we wish someday
you will come to us
when we are old
and tell us great things
you have done,
and tell us the memories
you have made
that will comfort you in the quiet moments
of your later days,  as we find comfort and pride
in thoughts and memories of you.

(Copyright Daniel Mark Extrom 2009-2011)

Note: this poem is not presently etched or printed, but we can do so if you’d like to have it as a gift item.  Send an email and we can discuss it. Thank You.  And study hard and best wishes to our students.